[Question?]

1. Are you aloud to play cards on Shabbat?

2. If you eat Pizza one slice you have to say Hatozie or Mezonons?

3. I go to Ahkanaz school but I am Bukharian and I do everything Ashkanaz I am supposed to do that or I should daven in Sefardi?

4. Once my teacher told me that when Jews suffers Hashem also suffers .But so much people are dying from different things and how come Hashem is not doing anything?

 

Answer:

 

1. It’s permitted, meaning it’s not considered work on Shabbat, but certainly one should try to spend Shabbat in a better manner than by playing cards. If you do play cards, make sure after you are finished you don’t sort the cards but just put them away in random order.

 

2. If the dough is made on  milk or apple juice then Mezonos, otherwise it’s a dispute and so it’s better not to eat only one slice. Rather try to eat more or eat a piece of  regular bread first.

 

3. While you are in that school you could davin like them nusach Ashkenaz.

 

4. This is not a simple subject. I recommend you reading R. Ezriel Tauber, “Darkness before Dawn”; R. Arye Kaplan “Handbook of Jewish Thought, Volume 2”. You can also see www.torahone.com/docs/Ekev.htm; http://www.torahone.com/docs/Nitzavim.htm (second question on Vayelech) and http://www.torahone.com/docs/Sazria.htm (second question on Parshas Metzorah).

 

 

[Question?]

 

Hi Rabbi. We know that in Parashat Yisro by 10 commandments Moshe went up and stayed for 40 days, now we turn to parashas Mispatim, my question is this parsha taken place in the 40 days when Moshe is on the mountain and God is going through with him all the laws? And if you say yes, how about the end of the parsha from Shisi and on (chapter 23 pasik 20)? And how about next few weeks Terumah Tetzaveh , is that also part of the 40 days?

Answer:

 

There are different opinions about the questions you asked. You should know in general that the shita of Ramban and the GR”A is that the Torah should always be assumed in chronological order unless it explicitly states otherwise. What this means is that when the Torah actually says that some even took place earlier than a different event which was described before, then we know that here the Torah “goes back” in terms of the time sequence of events. Otherwise the Torah is always chronological. The reason some events are described not chronologically is because the Torah wants to finish with one topic and then goes back to a different topic and events that happened before.

 

Not everyone agrees with this idea and apparently the Chazal themselves argue on this topic. Rashi and Ibn Ezra generally assume that any paragraph of Torah could be chronologically out of order and they often state in their commentaries that a particular event took place before or after. So there are different opinions as to when the first part of Mishpatim took place –

either when Moshe was on Sinai the first time or before he ascended. Similarly there are different opinions regarding when the end of this parsha took place as well as during which of Moshe’s stays on the Mount he received the command to build the Mishkan (next parshios) – during the first 40 days or the last 40 days.

 

[Question?]

 

Shalom Rabbi, I wanted to know something about kosher signs on food packages. I bought a box of cereal and it had single K sign on it. My brother said anybody can put K sign and sell it saying that kosher. What would you think about this K sign? Should I trust it or not?

Answer:

Generally you brother is right, letter K alone is not enough to know the product is kosher and certainly does not mean anybody checks for its kashrus. However I suggest calling one of big Hashgacha agencies and verifying this particular case. There may be a reason why this cereal is in fact kosher but there is no hashgacha on a package.

 

[Question?]

Hello Rabbi I wanted to know what do we say before going to sleep. I heard that we should say regular Shma but some say there is bed time Shma. Is it ok to say regular Shma or not?

Answer:

The bed time Shma is a regular Shma. Only that there are other verses people add as printed in sidurim. So the general name for all this became bedtime Shma.

[Question?]

What broha should I say before eating corn flakes?

Answer:

Most people make haadama if the corn flakes are made without crashing corn into powder, and shehakol if this type of cereal is made through crashing and restoring back. There is no simple way to tell which cereal companies use the first method and which the second. Star-K did some research on this and it’s available at their website.

[Question?]

If there are 2 talits katan: one is made of wool and its width is less then 1 ama (but of course more that half an ama) and another one is made of cotton and its width is more 1 ama. What is better to wear? Thanks.

 

Answer:

 

Probably it’s better to wear the second one. The reason seems to me that since for the first one is safek if one needs tzitzis altogether since is somewhat small (there may also be problems with wearing it outside on Shabbat and at any rate one should not make a brocha on a Talit this size). The second Talit for sure requires tzitzis but there are some opinions that the obligation is only Rabbinical, but some say it’s from Torah. At any rate a mitzvah is performed with it for sure.


 
[Question?]

Who was Bar Kochba? I heard from a rabbi that he tried to convince the Jews that he was messiah?

Is there any Talmud about this? And if yes can you tell me where.

 

Answer:

 

Look in Bavli Sanhedrin 93b; Yerushalmi, Taanis 24a; see also Vayoel Moshe 1:39,52,53 for further discussion.

 

 
[Question?]

 

As we read next week parsha of Maten Torah, my question to the rabbi is, from what I understand the torah that was given in sinai, was just the 10 commandment, now today the Torah is much more than that, it gives the whole history with the mitzvos, (the 5 books)

 

1) When did the Torah go from the 10 commandment to what we have today?

 

2) Who wrote the 10 commandment? b) Who wrote the rest of the Torah?

 

3) What about parshas Devorim is it a repeat of what it says in Bamidbar and Vahyikrah or Devorim has new things that were not written in the safer?

 

Answer:

 

1. The ten commandments were heard by the entire nation (even in that there is a dispute and some say only the first 2 were heard by everybody), but there were some commandments given even before Sinai (like in Mara) and the rest were received by Moshe while he was on the Mount. When he descended he taught the Torah to the Jewish people. Most of the commandments were thus received through Moshe and taught to the nation near Sinai (at Chorev) and later throughout the rest of 40 years in the wilderness. Note also that some details of certain commandments were given to Moshe later when need arose (an example is the details of inheritance, see Bemidbar 27).

 

2. If you mean who wrote the tablets, the Torah calls them written by Hashem (Shemos 31:18), meaning Hashem created the writing on the Luchos (see for instance Pirke Avos 5:6) and there are mystical interpretations of this statement. The entire Torah was written by Moshe either all at once in the end of his life, or he was writing piece by piece during the 40 years they were in the desert.

 

3. In Devarim Moshe was teaching Torah again to the Jewish people before departing. What we have in the book of Devarim is a number of commandments hitherto not mentioned. However Moshe was not teaching them now for the first time, rather they were taught before and written only in the book of Devarim.


 
 
[Question?]

 

Is it allowed to bind the tzitzit in the evening after the shkia inasmuch as this mitzva is applied to the daylight hours? And if not if it's already bound in the evening is it kosher bediavad? Thanks

 

Answer:

 
It’s good lechatchila.
 
[Question?]

When I have to go to the toilet in the middle of the seuda, what should I do afterwards? To wash hands in the way it's being done after the toilet and then after the broha to wash once again in the way as it's being done before the meal? Or I have to wash only once? Which type of washing?

The same question regarding going to the toilet in the middle of eating wet vegetables.

 

Answer:

 

There is a general machlokes as to whether a person who went to the bathroom during a meal and now is planning to eat more bread needs to make a new brocha on washing. Assuming you follow the opinion that requires washing without a brocha (see Kaf Hachaim 164:16-17), the question remains how to wash. This is also subject to dispute. You see there are different opinions in general if you need to wash three times after the bathroom or once is enough. If you are accustomed to wash three times (like most Sefardim do), then you should wash three times and make Asher Yatzar. This washing should be good for the remaining bread or wet vegetables as well (and see Kaf Hachaim 165:3).

 

 [Question?]

When you wake up in the morning, is there a specific way, how to get dressed? In other words, what’s the order from top to all the way to the shoes, also if I wake up in the middle of the night to go to the rest room do I need to wash nagel vaser?

 

Answer:

For details see commentators to Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim, siman 2 (like mishna berura 2:4, 2:7 etc). In general top is given priority to bottom, right side comes before left side (except for tying shoes). The Rema in Darchei Moshe (2:1) brings that people are not so makpid in our day …

 

You do wash the hands as soon as possible but without a brocha. At any rate you should try not to walk 4 amos without washing hands.

 

 

 
 
[Question?]
Who was Reb Yehuda Hachasid?
 
What year did he live in?
 
What Takanas did he make and why?
 
Who listens to his takanos today? 

 

[Answers?]

 

One of Rishonim in Germany.

 

About 800 years ago.

 

The main sefer attributed to him is called Sefer Chasidim. It’s full of Musar and contains also some Kabalistic ideas. He also left a Tzava (an ethical will) with some things that he advices not to do which are brought nowhere else and whose source is unknown (but might be in Kabala). Some say this tzava primarily applies only to his descendants.

 

There is a lot of discussion in the Acharonim about the Tzava of Rabeinu Yehudah Hachasid. Some of it is quoted in Shulchan Aruch and the commentators.

 

 [Question?]

 

In Hilchot Shabbat  the way I understand is when it comes to Cooking  (Bishul) as long as I put it up raw  meat a minute before Shabbos it can be no problem since I put it on the fire (of course with A blech to continue on to Shabbos) before Shabbos I have no problem, although the actual cooking will be on Shabbos or it has to be cooked before Shabbos or at-least 3/4 done?

 

Also what does Shehiya  mean?

 

Answer.

 

The heter of “raw meat” applies even when there is no blech. So too the heter of ½ cooked (or 1/3 cooked according to a different opinion) but this heter is a Machlokes and Sefardin in particular should not rely on.

 

But when there is a blech, then you can leave the food in any way you want even if it’s a little cooked.

 

Shehiya means leaving on the stove before Shabbos (the Gemorah uses it as opposed to “chazara” – returning the pot back on the blech after it was removed to take some food out). 

 

 [Question?]

If I go in to bagel shop to buy coffee, can I make a  bracha in the store  by starting to drink and have in mind to drink the rest in my car and not make a new bracha  or that won’t help since am leaving the store its called hesach hadas even if its on my mind when I make the bracha in the store to drink in my car .

 

Answer.

 

There is a dispute about it. The Kaf Hachaim and Ohr Letzion are meikel, so if you are Sephardi you have what to rely on to make a brocha with intent to continue drinking outside and in the car (you should first walk a few steps towards the exit to show intent and then make the brocha). If you are Ashkenazi you should not rely on this lehatchila and not make a brocha or drink until you get to the car to avoid any safek.

 

 

[Question?]

So Grain that has taken root before Pesach, meaning it was planted before Pesach  even if it is harvested after Pesach, is  it permitted to be eaten? Since it was planted before Pesach or once its harvest after Pesach you have till wait until the next Pesach? So if that is the case and am a farmer I will make sure that I plant these five grains on condition that I can harvest before Pesach …

Answer:

It has to take root before Omer for Omer to matir it. There is a dispute how long before Pesach it has to be planted in order to be permitted, some say only 3 days before the Omer. In Northern Europe on cold years they simply could not plant till after Pesach since there was snow before, and so the new crop was always Chodosh until the next Omer. In US there are two crops per season, the second is always planted after Pesach and it grows up at the end of August and is Chodosh. However it takes time for the stores to get the new crop and even then the majority of grain still stays Yoshon until a few months later. Only the last months before Pesach the majority of grain in the stores is Chodosh.


 

 

[Question?]

Today I walked in the bagel shop and there was a sigh written that all are food is yashan. Can You please Explain what yashan is and what chadash means? Also may I eat if its chadash?

 

Answer:

 

The Torah says (Vayikra 23:14) that we can’t eat any of the five grains (wheat, barley, rye, oats and spelt) of the “new” crop until the “Omer” offering is brought the day after Pesach. What this means is that any of these grains that are grown after previous Pesach can’t be eaten until in any form until the end of the day after Pesach (which outside the Land of Israel where all holidays are celebrated for two days means after two days after Pesach meaning till after the first day of Chol Hamoed is over). This law applies in our day. There are however two disputes:

 

1. If this law applies to grain grown outside the Land of Israel. However it definitely applies to food grown in Israel even if it’s exported, as the Torah says “in all your dwellings” (Yerushalmi, Kiddushin).

 

2. If it applies to grain grown by non-Jews, which is practically all the grain grown today in America.

 

Starting about the end of August the new grain begins to get to American markets. Many people are careful not to eat it not relying on either of the lenient opinions mentioned above. Sefardim are supposed to be strict, and many Litvish also are (since the Mishna Berura seems to be strict about this issue, and the GR”A also rejected both leniencies above). There is a special guide produced by HaRav Yosef Herman Shlita from Monsey to guide those who want to be stringent about Chodosh.

 

Since keeping this had become a lot simple in recent years more and more people accept this stringency even though in Europe few people were able to only eat yashan.

 

 [Question?]

 

What parts of the prayer is permitted to read before dawn? Thanks.

 

Answer:

 

Most poskim allow saying all the morning Brochos after midnight. Some however say that the brocha ending “lehabchin bein yom uvein laila” should not be said until down. Now regarding the korbonos, those passages that deal with the Temple Service that could be done at night (like trumas hadeshen) can be recited before down. However the passages starting with Tamid should be recited after dawn. If a person is really in a hurry it can be suggested in regards to passages of korbonos to rely on the earlier opinions of “dawn”, i.e. not the constant 72 minutes before sunrise but the amount of light in the East that is equivalent to 72 minutes in Eretz Yisroel in Nisan and Tishrey. This would make dawn about 1.5 hours before sunrise in the winter in New York.  

 

The real problem is Tefillin. The lehatchila time for Tefillin is not dawn but later, about 50 minutes before sunrise (some say 60 minutes before sunrise). So even if one finishes all korbonos by the “second” dawn of 72 minutes, what should he do? He can put Tallis immediately after dawn according to Rema (and this also not everyone agrees on). I once read that the mekubalim in Bet E-l do put on Tallis and Tefillin immediately after dawn relying on Rashi and Rabeinu Peretz. So if it is difficult to wait then maybe one can rely on these opinions. Shma also should not be said till about 50 minutes before sunrise, so if one puts on Tallis and Tefilin about 72 minutes before sunrise and then starts Pesuke Dezimra, hopefully he will say Shma not earlier than this time.

 

I know that there are people that are even more lenient than all of what I mentioned above and in fact in some Shuls they only put on Tallis and Tefillin between Yishtabach and Borchu 72 minutes before sunrise and say Shma a few minutes later, but I don’t see any reason to discuss these leniencies since it’s better to dovin alone later some time before 8-9 AM or so than relying on all these leniencies. Also one can dovin Shmone Esre in such a Shul and say Shma with Tefillin later on when time comes (the laws of the one who is traveling really early are described in the Shulchan Aruch, 89 and commentators there.)

 

 

 [Question?]

Why do we wash our hands with a cup? Where does it come from? What’s the history?

 

Answer:

 

Both washing hands before the meal and washing hands before prayer are rabbinical takanos. The only washing hands mentioned in the Torah is that the kohanim wash their hands before they can perform any service in the Temple (see Shemos 30:18-21). This washing had to be done with a cup and probably that is one of the reasons the washing instituted by rabbis also requires a cup.

 

The washing hands before the meal was instituted by King Shlomo and his Beis Din (although Shlomo instituted washing only for certain types of Holy food and washing before all bread was added later, see Talmud, Shabbos 15a). As usual with regards to rabbinical ordinances, our sages had various causes when instituting them, including Kabalistic reasons. A simple reason was to remind a person who has to it the food in spiritual purity (like a kohen eating truma) of any tumah (uncleanliness) he may have. Thus when washing hands he might remember that he had touched something that made him unclean and go to a mikva. Also this washing hands adds significance to a meal and in general brochos should never be said with hands that are not clean (there is a general hint in the Torah for washing hands before and after the meal, see Brochos 53b). In a different place, the Talmud (Chulin 106a) also sites an opinion that the verse (Vayikra 15:11) is yet another hint to washing hands.

 

As for the washing hands before prayer it’s not clear in which generation this was instituted but apparently this was even an earlier takana since prayer is in place of a korban (as is hinted by Tehillim 26:6, see Brochos 15a).

 

 [Question?]

 

I would like to ask you something. In my college my professor gave us assignment to do about evolution. He is asking whether we agree or not. I want to say that I don’t agree with theory of evolution since we, Jews, all know that G-d created us as human nothing else. However, I have to give 2 or 3 proves to my answer. Can you please help me to find proves. If I say that what written in bible they won't believe because they don’t believe in Bible itself. Please help me to answer with persuading proves.

 

Answer:

 

I am not an expert on this topic, and there are books that deal with it (like writings of Rav Avigdor Miller) but I don't know if you will have time to buy and read them before the assignment is due. So I will make a few points. My discussion will rather center on how to reject the theory of those evolutionists that life could be possible without Hashem.

-Evolution assumes that somehow the first life forms "evolved" from inorganic matter. For a biologist this seems plausible, given a long time, but not for a mathematician. The reason is that it takes tremendously long time to assemble any logical order out of chaos. Even a simple table with 20 by 20 lamps (400 lamps) which has some lamps lit and some not, will have 2 to the 400 power possibilities of combinations of lamps on and off. So if for example if the lamps are blinking 100 times a second, it would take trillions of trillions of trillions of trillions of trillions ... of years to reach a needed combination. And the RNA or DNA molecules are a lot more complicated. The possibility of any code usable for a living being to be generated at random is nil even assuming all the necessary ingredients somehow found their way to earth. This is even regarding the simplest life forms. And whether the simple life form can evolve to a more complicated one is a question that remains unproven even by those scientists who believe in evolution. As far as I know there has not been significant progress in this field and in fact many scientists have serious doubts about it.

-Note that we were not taking into account the complexity of all the life forms and their dependants on each other. How all of them fit together and function using each other. A simple example: plants do photosynthesis converting carbon dioxide to oxygen, animals breath doing the opposite. There are millions of similar examples where one life form can only exist given the other one. So if one would "evolve" randomly before the other it would not survive. (Just to give another quick example: many trees use animals to spread themselves to reproduce. Their sweet fruit attracts the animal, but the hard pit does not get digested, it exits the animal, falls into earth to produce new tree. Note that the seed is protected by the hard shell to not get damaged, and the eatable part of the fruit becomes attractive and fragrant and the fruit falls down exactly at the time it's ripe. Is not this a great show of Somebody guarding the tree not only for its' own sake but to also make sure it satisfies animals.)

-The general conditions on earth: pressure, temperature, amount of sunlight, everything testifies to plan and purpose. Any factory operated by computers is far less complicated than the whole world or even a single animal. The life on earth would not even exist if we were just slightly further or closer to the sun, if our atmosphere was slightly different, if the water level was a few percent higher etc etc.

Until now I was discussing evolution "by itself" i.e. if life on earth could have evolved without Hashem doing it. However from the prospective of a religious Jew that Hashem operate things, there is room to believe that He had in fact made more complicated creatures from simpler ones. There are some Orthodox Jews who believe that.

 

[Question?]

 

What is the problem with learning on the Eve of Dec 25th? And if there is, is it only until Mid Night?

 

Also why do some people hold of this problem on Jan 6th?

 

When you answer can you give me the source were you get them from

Answer:

There are many different customs regarding this minhag, look in Nitey Gabriel he discusses all opinions. According to Chasam Sofer we should davka learn after midnight. Many people don’t have that minhag altogether in our day, meaning they learn as usual this night like any other night. The reason is they hold that the main reason not to learn was because Jews were afraid of pogroms and therefore preferred to turn the light of and go to sleep not to annoy the Christians. If this was the reason, it certainly does not apply today. Regarding the exact day when the custom was not to learn, the difference comes from the difference when Roman Catholics and Greek Orthodox observe their holiday.

[Question?]

 

I would like to know, how many takanas did Ezrah make?  And what were they?

 

Answer:

 

Look in Bava Kama 82a.

 

[Question?]

 

Shalom Rabbi, I want to ask you a question about giving 10% of your salary. This is my first time earning money can you please tell me the rules, where I give it, to whom , how much and when? Thank you.

 

Answer:

 

This is really not something I can describe standing on one foot. You can get a book in English describing all the laws. I think Artscroll has one.

 

At any rate I can give general advice. There is a dispute on what maaser can be used for, the good advice is to say in the very beginning that you are starting to separate maaser on condition that you will be using it for various mitzvot, not just to the poor. If you make such condition you will be able to use the money to any good organizations whether they deal with helping the poor (tzedaka, hachnasat orchim, arranging marriages etc) or the ones that don't specifically deal with poor (like kiruv organizations, sefarim distribution, sinagogues, mikvaot, yeshivot etc).

 

You should make an accounting every so often (once or twice a year) to see how much you made and make sure you gave the maaserot. You can make that accounting at the same time as when you fill out your taxes if this way it is easier.

 

Mitzvot that are your personal obligation can not be paid for by maaser money. For example your obligations to give to the poor on Purim. But once you gave the minimum to two people, you can use maaser money to give to others.

 

There are various opinions as to how to compute the maaser. The most accepted way is that you simply take a tenth of the amount on your check excluded taxes. If you later get a tax return in the end of the year, you should separate maaser from that too.

 

There are different opinions as to whether maaser should be taken from things other than money. For example gifts, presents your company gives you (even possibly insurance that you would buy anyhow if the company did not give it). The custom seems to follow the lenient ruling.

 

There are guidelines as to which charitable causes take precedence. One of the rules is that poor relatives come first, but you should try to give to various causes and not everything to one person or organization.

 

[Question?]

 

 

Shalom Rabbi, I am a Sefardi Jew, my mom lights candles for shabbat am I also required to say or is t enough if I stand next to her and answer Amen. Another question is that according to halacha do we light the candle first or say the bracha. Also what about covering the eyes is it also required if yes then when after doing what. Thank you for your time for answering my questions.

 

Answer:

 

Generally Sefardi women don't make a bracha on lighting in the family where another woman lights (i.e. only one bracha is made per family). Moreover most unmarried girls don't light at all. If you want to light you can do so, but only your mother makes a bracha to cover you both, and you answer Amen.

 

There are different opinions whether Sefardi women first light or first make a bracha. Kaf Hachaim brings both customs. However Rav Ovadia Yosef thinks that Sefardi women (or men who light) should make the bracha first. So if you generally follow him, then you need to first make a bracha. There are different customs what to do with the match after the bracha. Some women just let it fall from their hands once they finished lighting, (you have to make sure it falls where it's not going to make fire.) At that moment they accept Shabbat.

 

All Ashkenazic women and some Sefardic women light first and then make a bracha. In order that their bracha will be considered somewhat before the action, they thus cover their eyes and only after the bracha start enjoying the light.

 
[Question?]

 

Thanks for your answer!

I have another question. Is it obligatory to do maim ahronim from a vessel? Or it's permitted to do it from the faucet? Thanks.

 

Answer:

 
There is a dispute about it, but most poskim (including Mishna Berura) are lenient.
 
[Question?]

It's said in the brocha Asher Yatzar that if one of the holes in the human's body will be closed for an hour one will die has veshalom. So what's the reason of such an expression "one hour", after all it's clear that one can live (yes, not a long time) but anyway more than an hour. So what's the point of such strange expression? Thanks in advance

 

Answer:

 

First of all in nusach Ashkenaz there is no phrase “one hour”. However in nusach Sefard there is. In fact the author of the Shulchan Aruch is quoting various opinions to answer your question, see his words in Orach Chaim 6:1 and the GR”A there. According to one solution this is hinting to a newborn baby, who needs to start breathing while the umbilical cord needs to be closed. According to another possibility what is meant is that once the holes are closed the time will come when a person will not be able to continue existing even for another hour. Note also that according to ArizalShaa Achat” has a Kabbalistic meaning and hints to a lofty spiritual concept.

 

[Question?]

Where in chazal is the story when the tana would ask his wife to make meal of say chicken and she would go and make it something else? I think it was Reb Chiya.

 

Can you please give me what mesachteah and what Daf.

Answer:

Yevamos 63a.

 

[Question?]

Who were the ten lost tribes? Or who were the two that remained?

 

When and what time in Jewish history did it happen?

 

Why did it happen?

 

Also can you tell me some insight what chazal say about it?

 

Answer:

 

The two that remained are Yehuda and Binyamin. Also Levi remained. The others were exiled, but there are some of the others among us too, since there was always migration and immigration from the Northern kingdom to Yehudah, and Yirmiyahu brought some of them back a hundred years after they were exiled.

 

Assyrian kings exiled the ten tribes about 2600 years ago.

 

There is a lot of Chazal, be more specific. There is a dispute if the remainder of the ten tribes will ever come back. But at any rate the descendants of all tribes are in existence among us today as mentioned above. See also Ramban, maamar hageula, end of first perek that the ten tribes did not return to Israel when Cyrus gave permission to Yehuda to return from Babylonian exile (however Daas Sofrim seems to hold that the ten tribes got partially mixed with Yehuda in their exile and traveling within Babylonean Empire that took over from Assyria. Only that the remainders of the ten tribes preferred to be called Yehudim after Yehuda since they saw what their split from Yehuda resulted in. At any rate Ezra coming back from Babel definitely had people from various tribes with him, it’s just not clear which f the above mentioned groups they belonged to – those that joined Yehuda during the rein of Yerobeam, or later or those brought by Yirmiyahu or those that joined already in exile.)

 

 

 

 [Question?]

 

 

My mother cooks the chullent before shabbos with a crackpot, now she puts underneath the crakpot a silver foil, so if it leaks out of the pot it does not get the counter dirty, my question is in middle of shabbos once I take off the pot of chullent to serve, am I aloud to use the silver foil for something else? Or is it muktza since it was set aside

 

Also what is the reason that some people don’t use a crackpot on shabbos?

 

Answer:

 

The foil is not Muktza. The reason some people don’t use crackpot is because some gedolim held it might be hatmana. Hatmana laws are far more strict that just leaving something on the blech, see Orach Chaim 257:1.

 

 [Question?]

Shalom, I would like to ask you s/t that has to do with dreams. Can you please explain me what is a dream , does it come true? And everything else about a dream. Thank you.

 

Answer:

 

Dreams is a complicated topic, many pages of Talmud (in tractate Brochos) and other books deal with them, so it’s hard to summarize in a few words. Generally speaking a dream can sometimes be a result of one’s personal thoughts during the day for instance. At other times a dream can “come from above”, we are thus taught that it can be 1/60 of a prophesy. Even in that case it gets projected, refracted and reflected many times in various spiritual worlds and therefore it comes in an unclear form with not all of its’ context exactly correct. We are thus taught that every dream has some empty content (dvarim batelim). Another piece of information: there are certain people who have an ability to interpret dreams and the dream then gets “fulfilled” according to their interpretation. It’s therefore important that if one saw a dream that bothers him or her, they should relate it to a friend who will only offer a good interpretation. Another option is that during Birkas Kohanim, when there is Divine Mercy coming down to this world, the one who saw a dream says a prayer to Hashem to turn it only to good. When this is hard to do, there is a possibility to “Metiv Chalom” (improve the dream) when three people sit down and the one who saw a dream tells them about it and says certain verses and they answer back with verses and wishes on his behalf. The exact nusach of this is printed in sidurim.

 

 

 

  Question? 
 

If the person in the midle of amidah feel the need to go to the bathroom, what should he do in this situation. Is he aloud to stop in the middle of his prayer and go, or should he finish his amida and then go? Thank you.

 

Answer:

 

Shalom,

 

If he started Shmone Esre when he did not want to go to the bathroom and later felt the need, he should not interrupt but finish. However if he did interrupt, he can continue praying when he comes back starting from the beginning of the brocha he was in if the interruption was for less time than it takes to say the entire prayer. Otherwise he has to start all over.

 

All of the above applies if he did not feel the need to go to the bathroom when he started praying. However if he feels the need to go, he is not allowed to start. If he started Shmone Esre when he had an urge to go, and could not hold himself for even 72 minutes, then his prayer is invalid and he needs to pray again. There is a dispute if this applies only to wanting to go for big (number 2) or even for small (number 1).

 

[Question?]

 

Shalom Rabbi, I would like to ask you a question. I pray every morning at home but i am not sure in changes due to Hanukah can u please tell me changes in Shmoney Asrey(Amidah) and do we say Musaff for Hanuka or not? Thamk you.

 

 

Answer:

 

Shalom,

 

The 18th (pre-last) brocha has an addition about Chanukkah, it starts with words Al Hanisim. If you forget to add it you still fulfill your obligation after the fact. Musaf is not said on regular days of Chanuka unless they fall on Rosh Chodesh (this Monday) or Shabbos. Then the same addition is made in Musaf's pre-last brocha (Modim).

 

 
 [Question?]

hi Rabbi

 

why do we say vesan Tal umotor based on a secular calendar? (DEC 4th) more to the question why don't we do it like in Israel on 7th of chesvon

 

also just another observation ,once you explain to me  why the 4th my next question why this year its DEC 5th

 

please give me a very clear and lengthy answer

 

thanks  chag semach

Answer:

In Eretz Yisroel they start asking for rain earlier because they need more rain water. We ask for rain according the minhag in Babylon which was valley land and needed less rain. (Most areas Chutz Laaretz indeed don’t need as much rain as in Eretz Yisroel, but regarding places which do need a lot of rain early there was a machlokes Rishonim if they should in fact ask earlier or should only add their request in Shomea Tefila. We follow the second opinion, but Bediveved if one asked earlier he may be Yotze).

 

The general law was setup to depend on solar year since this is what weather conditions depend on. One might ask then why in Eretz Yisroel a similar system was not setup to make starting date depend on solar year? In Eretz Yisroel they need to ask as early as possible, and since they can’t ask for rain during holiday season or too close to it until people can return from Yerushalaim to their home towns, the date (7th Cheshvan) was chosen 15 days after Sukkos.

 

The reason the date Chutz Laaretz comes out on Dec 4-5 is because for all simple calculations we use Shmuel’s Tekufa meaning we consider the solar year 365.25 days. Now our 19 year cycle calendar is setup using a different more accurate number for the solar year, but for all simple calculation like when to ask for rain and when to make Birkas Hachama, Shmuel approximation is sufficient. The reason for this difference is that calendar is setup by scholars whereas calculations like when to ask for rain are made by regular people. So since the western secular calendar currently is using a smaller number for solar year than 365.25 we keep moving our date compared to theirs every 3 out of 4 centuries.

 

The reason we ask one day later when next year is leap is again because the leap year chosen by Julian used by western calendar is not the same counted by us. (Julian could have chosen any of the years to be leap and then starting from that year every fourth one would be leap again. Had he chosen one year earlier, we would always ask for rain on the same day the entire century). Imagine that secular year would be leap not when it’s divisible by four by when it’s remainder 3 mod 4. The average result would be the same, but then last February would have been leap and then the 4th of December this year would actually be the 5th. So we would always ask for rain the night after the 4th of December. But because they count the leap years one year later, we have to take that into account.

 

[Question?]

 

Shalom Rabbi Chaim, My parents, who are not so observant, bought a toaster from a non-Jewish friend but I am doubting that we as Jewish people are allowed to use it. Or is there any way to kosher it I would like to know from you. Thank you.

 

Answer:

I asked your question to Rabbi Pesachia Fried. He said that after cleaning it you should turn it on and run it through the maximally long cycle with highest possible temperature. You will also need to immerse it in a Mikva. After this don’t use it for 24 hours so it dries up otherwise it may break.

 

 

[Question?]

 

Shalom, I would like to ask you what is not really ABOUT Torah or Hashem, so can you please answer me. I have a friend who is 15 years old she is a girl and she goes to yeshiva with me. Her birthday is coming up and I don't know what to get her. On my birthday she got me a siddur.  So can you please tell something Jewish I could get her? Thank you. I can't wait for your answer.

 

Answer:

 

There are many good Jewish books you could buy for her. Books by Rabbi Arye Kaplan or Rabbi Ezriel Tauber may be very good, but you know better what you friend might like. If you are not sure, you can give her gift certificate to Eichlers so she can choose on her own.

Also how about a trial subscription of HaModia newspaper and magazine? That costs $20, and most people like it a lot. Their number is 718 853 9094. Or you can buy her a membership in a Jewish library for a year if she lives in one of the neighborhoods where this exists. Another possibility: if she lights the candles Friday night (most single girls do not but if she does) you can get her nice candle sticks if hers are plain.

 

 [Question?]

I understand that the time of Chanukah the Jews were under kingdom, my question is when did Jewish kingdom start (I don’t think the Jews had one under by the first temple)

 

and also when did it finish

 

also can the rabbi  give me a list of all the Jewish kings?

 

Answer:

-I think you meant to say there was not a “True” Jewish Kingdom after the destruction of the First Temple. It’s certainly a controversial topic, one thing for sure is that almost the entire time of the Second Temple was very sad period of punishments (Malbim says it was in a way continuation of Exile and punishments that started with the destruction of the First Temple). In general once the Chashmonaim won the war they did basically become kings for 103 years. Indeed this was a mistake and according to Ramban this was the reason this family was later destroyed. The reason for this is that the kings are supposed to be from Yehuda not from Levi.

 

-After Herod killed all the Chashmonaim, his dynasty ruled for another 103 years. These people were completely unfit to serve as kings and their Halachik status was servants. This dynasty finished when the Temple was destroyed. But these people can hardly be called Jewish Kings since their primary interest was on the side of the Greeks and the only “good” king among them was the first Agrippa. The curses of second Tochecha in Ki Savo were fulfilled in their time (“the foreigner among you will rise higher and higher, while you will be lower and lower …” this Tochecha is about the Second Temple times as opposed to the first Tochecha that predict the end of the First Temple).

 

- First children of Matisyahu ruled, the last of the brothers was Shimon. They were all righteous and they were the only righteous kings in that dynasty. After Shimon’s death, his son Yochanan ruled and at the end of his life he allied with the Sadducees. Then his sons ruled the last one being Alexander Yonai who was completely on the side of Sadducees.  When Alexander Yonai died and his children were too young, his wife Shlomis Alexandra was officially the queen but in practice she gave the power to the sages. This was possibly the best time during the Second Temple but it did not last long. Her sons Hurkenos and Aristabulus grew up, one allied with Sadducees and the other with Edomites (his adviser was Antipater father of Herod). They were fighting for power and brought the Romans into the picture. There was still a short time Antignos son of Aristabulus from the family of Chashmonaim ruling and then they all got killed by Herod who secured the Roman support and took over.

 

[Question?]

am a single guy who live with my parents , as Chanukah is coming up ,do I have to light, if my father is already lighting for the house? So if you say no ...does that mean I have the option?? And if I choose that I don’t want to light, do I have to be at the time when my father makes the brachah?

 

Now if choose to light, can a make it with a bracha? Or you might tell me not to make the bracha since it might be a waste of bracha being that my father has me in my mind.

 

Again being that I live with my parents, and I don’t own the house, what should I do and give me all my best options

 

Answer:

 

Many of these questions are subject to dispute. In general, for Ashkenazim the minhag is that all (male) members of household light with a brocha. The real question is if your father lights on time and you come home very late, whether you should still light with a brocha? It’s known that the main mitzvah of Chanukah is fulfilled even if one member of household lights (even one candle every day), and the rest fulfill their obligation even when they were not present at the time of his lighting. The custom for everyone to light is Mehadrin min Hamehadrin. However maybe it’s not worth while to light with a brocha for those who come home late especially if they light inside the house. This is certainly true if you come home when everyone is asleep. I should also mention here that according to the GR”A anybody who lights more than 30 minutes after the proper time is always supposed to light without a brocha. The general custom is not to follow the GR”A, but certainly you should try to be home at proper time and light then with a brocha.

 
 [Question?]

Why is it that woman light candles Fri.  18 min before sunset?, why not right by sunset or why not 10 or 15 min before?

 

Also why in Yerushaim is it 40 min before sunset?

 

Answer:

 

This is all dependant on various customs. You have to add some time to Shabbos. Not everyone lights 18 minutes before shkia, CRC instituted to light 15 minutes before shkia. Probably the minhag to light 18 minutes before is based on the shita of R. Eliezer MiMitz that this is when Bein Hashmoshos starts.

 

In Yerushalaim also not everybody lights 40 minutes before shkia. Probably the custom to light this early has to do with general minhag to add 1/12 to Shabbos (see Beer Hetiv 261) like the Shmita that had an extra month (1/12 of the year) added. This way for those who keep 40 minutes before shikia, and more than an hour after shkia Motezi Shabbos, the total Shabbos is about 26 hours i.e. 24+24/12. See also Trumos Hadeshen (1st Tshuva) and Mordechi (2nd Perek of Shabbos) and Bach and Aruch Hashulchan (261).

 

Also the Tosafos Shabbos hints to the Tosafos of Olam Haba, as the Seventh day corresponds to the Seventh thousand years, while the end of Friday corresponds to the times of Moshiach. So by greeting Shabbos early in Yerushalaim, the hope is to also be zoche to greet Moshiach early.

 
[Question?]
 

If I eat cereal in the morning ex. cheerios and milk... what bracha do I make, or to avoid any problem make two brachas by eating and drinking them at first separately and then continue eating it together, and if you tell me to do this option then what would be the order milk or the cheerios?

Answer:

Your uncertainly is whether milk is tafel (secondary) to cereal or not. This is an old question and moreover the answer may depend on the person eating.

Certainly if you make the two brochos before you mix them you will avoid the problem. Then the order is Mezonos first. The real question is the brocha Achrona. If in fact milk is tafel, you would only need al hamichya. Even if milk is not tafel and has chashivus in its’ own right, there is another shaila if you drank enough milk within short enough time. The issue is the old machlokes of whether drinking a reviis should be done within a short time (that it takes to drink reviis normally – a couple of seconds?) or a longer time (kedey achilas pras) which is a few minutes. Certainly you never drink cereal milk fast enough to satisfy the first opinion. Plus there are opinions that you don’t even have to drink reviis, but only a kezais.

So you see already there are too many different uncertainties here. If you really want to be yotze all opinions for sure (which is what I do) you will eat or drink something on the side. So for example, if besides cereal, you drink a cup of orange juice, then first you make mezonos on cereal, then shehakol on orange juice and have kavona to include the milk, in case it’s not tafel, then after you finish you make al hamichya and bore nefashos.

 


[Question?]

Why did God create this world?? God is perfect, He did not need to make this world to proof anyone.

 

Answer:

 

This is very old and deep question. I suggest you read Rabbi Arye Kaplan’s books like “Handbook of Jewish Thought”, “If you were God” and others. To say in few words, G-d “wanted” that there will be creatures that are capable of enjoying closeness to Him. The whole creation was an altruistic act. 

 


 [Question?]

 

Shalom, I wanted to ask you how do we kosher a microwave. what I know is that we must put a cup of water inside and boil it until it has lots of vapors but when I do it it never makes vapors so how or what should I do?

 

Answer:

 

First, I’d like to mention that not everybody agrees microwave can be koshered. Also, you should know that most poskim allow to use the microwave without koshering if the food is completely closed from all sides (and even better if it’s double wrapped, but make sure to use material that’s microwavable.)

 

Now, regarding your question, after you cleaned the microwave inside and waited 24 hours, you tried to boil a container of water, it did not boil. Maybe you did not set the sufficient time period? Maybe you used distilled water that does not produce bubbles? If I understand the physics of this correctly, adding a drop of salt (or maybe a drop of dirt) might do the trick. If nothing else works, some allow boiling a pot of water on fire and placing it immediately into the microwave.

 

Note that you may need to kosher the insert tray that’s under the pots (or replace it) since hot food may have fallen on it before. The way to kosher it is at least by pouring boiling water on it.

 


 

[Question?]

when I know a person  about to be shomer shabbos but he is not committed yet , now he does not know that opening up a light is a problem  on shabbos , therefore he is only a ohnes , now if I would tell him that opening up a light on shabbos  is a problem he might continue anyway .. so I just made the situation that he is a mazid .. so is it better that I don't tell him so he remains a ohnes

 

Answer:

 

If chances are he will listen, then you should tell him. But don’t just tell the difficulty, tell him the solutions (timers for instance). Maybe buy him a timer and install it for him if you can?


 

 [Question?]

When am in middle of shema  and the bal tefilah is ready to say kedushsa at the loud shemoneh esrei ,

 

what should I do:

a)stop were am holding and stand up but don’t say anything, cause I will be mafsik

b)stop were am holding and stand up but do say kedushsa

c)sit and continue of shema

 

Answer:

 

B). Stop and answer only the main two parts of Kedusha: Kadosh Kadosh … and Baruch Kevod … All this assuming you are not in the middle of the first Posuk of Shma and not in Baruch Shem Kevod ...

 

[Question?]

When I am behind in   davining shmone esre and the tzibur is holding at thacanun , and now when I finish shmone esre they are done with tachanun , may I say it by my self? If yes does it include everything from Tachanun or some of it? Or better yet what about if I daven biyuchidus at home?

 

Answer:

When you are in the Tzibur there is enough to rely on, to say the entire Tachanun even if you are not in sync with them. But at home you have to skip 13 Midos (if your custom is to say them altogether). Other parts of Tachanun can be said beyachidus for sure.

 

[Question?]

If a person lends someone money and the guy pays him back, can the guy who is paying back say thank you? Because its like giving interest because he is giving him more than he deserves???

 

Answer:

You are right. He should only say thank you after he gave back the money, and waited for a short time.

 

 [Question?]

If a person wants to become religious, which (easy) mitsvah  should he START observing in your opinion?

 

Answer:

Shabbos and Kashrus are certainly good candidates. Also saying Shma and making brochos over food. In some cases it’s advisable that he should start by attending a synagogue where good classes are given for that may inspire him to keep more mitzvos.

 

 

[Question?]

When is Moshiach coming?

 

Answer:

 

When I find out I will Bli Neder notify you right away! But at that time you want need my notification since you will know this without me.

 

 


 
[Question?]
1) were is padan aram?
2)were is Gerar?
3) how old was Yitzchok  from the beginning  to the end of parsha ?

 

Answer:

1) In Syria

2) In South East of Eretz Yisroel, probably around where Palestinian autonomy is now.

3) He was 40 when he married, 60 when he had his children, 123 when he blessed Yakov and then Yakov (who was 63) went to Syria (stopping in the academy of Shem and Ever on the way for 14 years) and arriving at the age of 77 – that’s going to be the next parsha.

 

[Question?]

Hello Rabbi,

Its me again, I am not sure if you heard but they were doing an operation in India to a baby girl who has two bodies (8limbs) but one head (Parasitic body)  The Indians think she is a reincarnated godess.  My question is does this girl has two souls or one?

 

Answer:

 

I don’t know, but in general even a regular person with regular body can have more than one soul.

[Question?]

Hello Rabbi, I have a question with listening to the radio.  Am I allowed to hear woman sing?

 

Answer:

 

There are different opinions about it. Those who allow make a stipulation that you have never seen the singer. Most opinions don’t allow. Also, if she is singing indecent things (as is often the case) then it’s for sure not right to listen to her. Even if it’s not a woman but a man who sings improper thing, one should not listen to him.

 


 [Question?]

Shalom Rabbi, I have a question from my science class in college. Scientists believe that there are two "kingdoms": animal and plants kingdom. They think that human beings belong to animal "kingdom" what do you think about it?

 

Answer: In terms of the physical body indeed a human being can be considered a kind of animal. The real difference between the religious approach and the irreligious approach lies in the special soul that a person possesses, while an animal only has a low level animal soul. The GR”A used to say: from physical point of view, a person is even “worse” than animals while from spiritual he is much better. What he probably meant is that physically we are poorly equipped than animals. We need very special conditions for living, we can’t stand very low or very high temperatures, many foods that are available naturally in abundance (like grass) are not suited for a human being. We can’t run away from predators, nor can we catch most animals for food through simply running after them. In short, if not for our intellectual ability that comes with the soul, we would be quite underprivileged. But our spiritual “ingredient” compensates fully for the lack of physical ability…   

Rabbi, If non-Jews would ask you "give me a prove that G-d exists" what would you answer?   

 

Answer: One of the well known proofs that in fact many people on earth are quite aware about is the complexity of our universe with everything prepared very carefully for life. To my mind any unbiased person can see the “Hand” of “Someone” with supreme wisdom in every aspect of “nature” that makes life on Earth possible. On top of it, any serious study of any living being, animal or plant can reveal endless wisdom showing plan and purpose. Attributing all of this to blind “evolution” is simply too farfetched. The inorganic nature contains everything needed for organic life, the conditions on our planet are so perfectly prepared for life … Every step we take we see plan in purpose in everything around us.

 


Question: Shalom, I have a question on bereishit. It is described that there is no badness or jealousy in Heaven so why did nachash(snake) made Chava sin?  Thank you.

 

Answer: First of all, at the time of Adam’s sin he was not exactly in heaven, but in a place called Gan Eden on Earth. It’s just that all the worlds were spiritually higher at that time, and so was the level of animals (see also Arizal, Taamey Hamitzvos, Parshas Ekev). Secondly there is a possibility even for an angel to make a mistake through lack of his connection to his spiritual root. As a result of such mistake he would normally be “expelled” since as you mentioned there is no possibility for “jealousy” or other “sins” to remain on High. In case of Satan however since he and his army of angels is needed to provide our testing, he is not being expelled even after he showed the above traits (See Ramchal, second part of Daas Tvunos, 30-34, it’s on pages 40-41 in the standard green edition of Kisvey Ramchal, volume 2.) 

 
 
 
Question: What should I light first on Friday , Chanuka candles or Shabbos candles ?
Answer: Chanukka candles are lit first.

 

 [Question?] Why do men wrap Tefillin straps around the middle finger?


[Answer:] There is some similarity between Tefilin and marriage... (our marriage to Hashem in a way).

 

As usual there are elements of 7 and 3. Like 7 brochos of marriage and 3 primary parts of marriage (Kidushin, Kesubah and Chuppa). This corresponds to the 3 and 7 here: 7 wraps around the arm and three wraps around the middle finger.

A deeper significance also exists: 7 corresponds to 7 lower sefiros, and 3 – to the 3 higher ones.


If your question is why the "middle" finger in particular is chosen, the truth is there is an opinion that this is where the Kala wears her ring. In any case this is the main, and the longest finger, to which "Ama" is measured and it is called an "Ama".

 

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[Question?] In the situation if I don't have a cup to wash my hands after using bathroom can i still say a Bracha after washing my hands?

Yes, but try to wash the hands in the bathroom (even without the cup) three times, and wipe them outside the bathroom. Then you can make Asher Yatzar.

But if you are planning to eat bread, you should not wash hands inside the bathroom. You can however if there is no other way take a cup of water from the bathroom outside the bathroom and wash there. You can use any cup, I am sure you
can find something (or plastic cup if there is nothing else).

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[Question?] Why are we not allowed to shave our face with razor?

[Answer:] To answer this one would need to write a whole book. At any rate, the hair of a man's face (beard) is a projection of a spiritual "beard" - the 13 principles of Hashem's mercy. Each hair is a channel through which spiritual energy is
flowing.

If your question is why the "razor" in particular is prohibited, the truth is that most Rabbis forbid using electric shaver as well. However to explain the opinion of those Rabbis that do permit electric shavers, well generally electric shavers don't destroy the hair in it's entirety. A little bit is left even though it's usually less than 1 mm. However those shavers that "shave
closer than blade" are for sure forbidden.

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[Question?] I have a question about freedom of choice in this world according to Torah. This is my way of thought:  It is interesting to notice how HaShem sets up everything in this world. Great Tsadikim were actually born because HaShem wanted them to be born.  For  instance, Avraham was fed by angel Gavriel and was secluded from the world  --  so of course 99% of people will choose HaShem as G-d since they have most purest thoughts. Itskhak's mother Sarah breastfed him and all other kids of the world (source: Midrash Says) -- HaShem did that on purpose as to show that she's the real mother and no one else. Moshe was chosen by HaShem (as Torah says because he was able to take care of animals and therefore he'll for sure be able to take care of people), but was he really chosen because of this? Are we saying that out of millions of Jews in Egypt, he was the ONLY ONE doing that? I mean take a look at Aharon, his brother (as just one example).

Also, Talmud says that whoever gets angry is like he did avoda zara because by getting angry, the person shows that he thinks there's another entity besides G-d. G-d is the only One who sent this problem to a person, but He did it through another person. Adam made a sin by eating a forbidden fruit, but if he were to repent on time, HaShem wouldn't have punished him. It also says that everything in this world is decided on Rosh HaShanah -- everything except how people utilize it. Yehudah slept with prostitute who was actually his own daughter in law Tamar because he knew that this will bring Mashiakh into this world. But he wasn't aware who she is. So, anyone doing this without HaShem's prophecy, would sin, but he did it because of prophecy and therefore he did not sin.  My personal opinion, that we are all programmed in by G-d. Our only mistake is that we think it is us who make choices to sin or not. But if were to realize that EVERYTHING comes from HaShem, including our sins, because this is how HaShem wants things to be. Then we would not be punished. So, while we think we make choices (we do have a choice wether to go right or left, to eat or not, etc.), HaShem already knows our "choices" -- what will happen.

Also it says in Talmud that everyone is judged according to how he judges others. What do you think?

[Answer:]

Please read my commentary on Vayechi you will see certain ideas about freedom of choice. For now I can tell you that you are wrong and right. You are wrong that we "programmed" but you are right that Hashem knows what we will choose. Why the second statement does not contradict the first is exactly what I discuss in that parsha. For now, look into Tosafos Yom Tov to mishna 3:15 in Pirkey Avos.

A follow up [Question?]

I just read your article on the "freedom of choice" in "Vayechi" and I have to tell you that it still does not answer my question if we are like puppets. HaShem knows everything and not just that, HaShem also prepares special events and special souls -- these things are even predicted (as your own articles mentions). HaShem didn't just choose Malki Tsedek -- this person was very righteous. No, it says that HaShem was waiting for Avraham. Why didn't He choose Malki Tsedek (Shem) to start a Jewish nation? HaShem was waiting for 10 generations for Avraham? If things were random, then I'd say, pick the best one from the generation and do not wait. But things are not random and the fact that HaShem waited 10 generations, proves that it was a setup.  It says "do not judge others and you will not be judged". "Don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto you". (Gemara) I think the reason HaShem punishes us and rewards us is because humans have this stupid thing: we think that we are the ones who accomplish things, but in reality we are not the ones. Everything is sent by HaShem. For this reason lashon hara is forbidden because 1) it goes against "do not judge" and "don't do unto others..." and 2) it is like one is doing avoda zara because he does not believe it comes from HaShem. Your own example of a movie proves me right because before one creates a movie, one needs a script -- which in our case is Torah. So, it seems that we are all going with the script -- predetermined script.

I still do not see how this world (which seems to be predetermined) has freedom of choice. We only THINK we have freedom of choice, but in reality, we are only acting according to the script.

Thank you for reading my humble opinion,

[Answer:] 

If you read carefully what I wrote you will understand a lot. If you would be able to look at the sources (the most important part of my book) you would understand even more. The movie is just an example, the exact mechanism is beyond our understanding. It's hard for me to write this on paper, if you want to talk about it over the phone I can try to give some more examples. But as I stated the full understanding is not possible, but we know it is true. We are given freedom of choice and we are judged for making wrong choices. This is fundamental principle in tons of places in the Torah. By the way, Avraham also did not have to be Avraham, then there would be someone else. Some people are prepared for a great task but they fail. For example Yeravam. He was a great man. But he failed. Even better example is righteous Hizkiyahu who could become mashiach. See our words to Lech Lecha.

A follow up [Question?]

I've asked a few people this question and everyone gave different answers which I didn't really feel answer my question. I did receive two answers which I liked so far. If there's no freedom of choice, then 1) there's no purpose in Torah (still does not answer my question 100%) and 2) then HaShem is lying to us by telling us in Torah that we have freedom of choice and he's giving us Brakha and klala and is telling us to choose Brakha.

[Answer:]

There is freedom of choice, this is basic Judaism 101. However it's impossible to know exactly how this freedom is possible given that Hashem knows the future evens.  It's really hard for me to discuss this in writing like I mentioned.

A follow up [Question?]

I was not asking you this question again, I was just sharing some answers with you that I think make sense at least to me. Just because Judaism 101 says there's freedom of choice, it does not mean I am not allowed to question it. In fact, as I learned from many Rabbis, we have the right to question anything in Torah. Just because we don't know the answer, does not mean we should not follow it. We should follow until we find answer. As Jews said: "Naase venishma" -- we will do and then we will listen (learn).

[Answer:]

I did not mean whether we have a right or not. I just know it's a fundamental principle, and the fact we don't understand or can not understand is not a problem. If you learned the Tosafos, you will see there are thousands of things even these giants did not know how to answer. And these things are a lot simpler than freedom of choice ... An we don't even understand the Tosafos.

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Questions:

 

1) Where is Canaan?

 

2) Where is Ur Casdim?

 

3) Were is Charan?

 

4) Timeline: from the beginning of this parsha till the end of the parsha ....how old was Avraham ...in other words can you give me a time table of all the stories that happened

 

Answers:

Canaan is the son of Cham from whom the nations descended which occupied the Holy Land given to Avraham. However we did not get all of it, only 7 nations. Another three were meanwhile taken by Avraham's relatives (Moav,Amon and Edom). We will get it one day too. In general Torah usually calls Eretz Canaan a synonym to Eretz Yisroel, before we go it.

 

Ur Kasdim is in Irak (Bavel).

 

Charan is further North West from Irak between Eretz Yisroel and Bavel. It's probably today's Syria.

 

There are different interpretations, Seder Olam holds that the Covenant between pieces mentioned later was when Avraham was 70, while the beginning of this parsha when Hashem calls him he was 75. GR"A says everything is in order, he was 70 when he started travelling. At any rate he was 75 at the beginning of this parsha (12:4), and he will have Yishmoel when he is 86. Later when Yitzchak is born he will be 100.

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[Question?]

 

This whole dialog Yosef and his brothers telling him about his dreams and then the brothers planning to kill him, my question is

 

a) where was this taking place? Hevron? Beer Sheva? 

 

b) also were was the dunjen .. were they threw him in , what place

 

c) also can you give me the rest of the parsha (till the end) … the timing and were it took place, as you see am very in to this, cause it gives me more of a better feeling when I learn the parsha.

 

[Answer:]

 

a) Apparently lived in Chevron at that time. That's where he came back to in last parsha.

 

b) You mean the "Bor"? The Torah says it was near Shechem, where they pastured the flock at that time. Dotan was the place where Yosef's brothers went to from Shechem. According to Rabbi Kaplan 15 miles further north of Shechem. My advice to you is to get The Living Torah, since you are so interested in various geographic issues, Rabbi Kaplan has it all there...

 

c) Yosef was 17 when he was sold. He spent the rest of his life in Egypt. He was by Potifar a short time, then was thrown into dungeon. He spent 12 years in dungeon, and was 30 when Pharaoh made him second to the king. Then 7 years of plenty, two years of hunger, he is 39 when his brothers came and later Yakov came. Yakov was then 91+39=130. He lived in Egypt 17 years. Yosef lived in Egypt 110-17=93 years. At Yosef's death the Jewish people were in Egypt for 70+ years.

 

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A) I wanted to know if you can give me a whole list of who were the Chashmenoim, and the timing.

 

b) Who was the head of the Greece ruling of the time of Chanukah?

 

c) Did Alexander the Great have any role in Chanukah? If yes how? Or if now the was be born before the story of Chanuka or after?

 

d) When did the story of Chanukah happen, and how long was the whole story of Chanukah?

 

e) Who was Yehudis?

 

f) What is the Piyut Maoz Tzur?

 

A) it's a family. Matityahu and his sons. Their rule started 34+180 years into the Second Temple, close to 2200 years ago.

 

B) Not Greece. Alexander's empire was split into 4, like Daniel predicted. The part of Syria north of Israel was ruled by king called Antiochus, this one in particular was called Antioch Epiphanies the fourth

 

C) Alexander was 180 years before.

 

D) See Radak Zecharia 11:14 says:

 

Matityahu ruled one year

Yehuda - 6

Yonasan - 6

Shimon - 18

The last three are all sons of Matityahu.

 

D) According to Ben Ish Chai - hilchos Chanukka, Yehudis was before in a different setting, she killed an enemy’s commander through trickery.

 

F) The Pijut in general is on various events in our history, asking Hashem to redeem us and bemoaning the fact that we did not withstand all these tests and deserved punishment from the nations.